Sunday, January 14, 2007

Off to Jhapa for Nuptials

Finally, time has come to tie the knot. After thirty one years of solitary existence, at this juncture of life, a woman is entering my life to share my fate. One to whom am going to swear lifelong devotion.

I am a staunch believer in the institution called marriage. When I broke this news to my editor, he remarked: "Ah, it's amazing for a person like you to approve your parent's selection (of bride)." "Yes, I followed the tradition," I said. He congratulated me. Then, I told myself: I'm just reversing the love sequence. People first fall in love and then tie the knot. I wish to marry and then fall in love for the lifetime.

Jan 28 is the auspicious day of wedding and her name is Kavita, the poetry of my life. Poetry apart, the joys and sorrows, I believe will be halved and shared. You need someone to care, more importantly you need to be loved and I feel fortunate to be worthy of this bond.

Though at times, I pondered over living all alone till the end that was simply a daydream. I simply cocooned into the comfort of marriage. I hope this translates into a joyous rhythm of life.

As a groom to be, I am both excited and edgy. Like all a head of his or her marriage, I am anxious about the post marriage life. Look forward to it very much. I often tell my friends: There are three important events in a person's life: birth, marriage and death. You can not celebrate the first and the last. So, celebrate marriage, celebrate love.

Talking about love, how can I be so mean without mentioning the unconditional love of two most beautiful women in my life. Thank you A and B. Sorry.. K is waiting for me.

PS: More so, for the Valentine Day is here very soon.

22 comments:

A said...

जो भी मिला ओ भी है मुकद्दर
जो ना मिला ओ भी है मुकद्दर
जो मिलने वाला है ओ भी है मुकद्दर

It was a great blog.Great love.Great commitment. You are that damn मुकद्दरका सिकन्दर ।

Congratulation D....It's gonna be a great union , great solace.

chamatkaribaba said...

Oh.........congratulation Deepak Ji, Have a great married and "real" love life ahead in ur life.
Bar Badhu lai Subhakamana Bihe kai din dina pa majjai begalai hunthyo........tara kehi chhana happy conjugal life.....

Wagle Street Journal said...

Congratulations to Bar and Badhu (Behula and Behuli). Naya suruwat ko shubhakamana :)

Rezwan said...

Congratulations Deepak!

Wishing that you two live happily ever after.

Can we expect to see some moment's of the celebrations via photos or rants in this blog?

archana said...

congratulation!!! deepak ji.

here's a beautiful quote I think you'd like:

"what lies ahead of us,
and what lies behind us
are small matters compared to what lies within us."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

mp said...

Congratulations Deepak-ji...

sbs said...

Deepak Jee,
Congrats!
Wish you happy married life.

SBS

Anonymous said...

Congratulation for your New Social life through Marriage.
Thanks.
Reality Bites

Tajim said...

Congrats Deepak Ji

We hope to see some images form your marriage. Keep on posting

passionate dreamer said...

congrats deepak..wish u a prosperous n happy married life ahead

passionate dreamer said...

*dai..(i missed dai hehe)

Say na Something said...

Hey got married? Congratulation! Sounds so romantic, you must be!

zade said...

Wish you lots and lots of Happiness! love after marriage, I think that's the best way to do it really. Ani for the Vals day, that will also be a rocking one as this time you know for sure that your Valentine is here To Stay! :) no fooling around. So may you get all that you wished for and Even more. Happy Wedded Life!

Chandan said...

OMG...

Its amazing Deepak dai...

Awesome! Congratulations on tying knot...I hope u tied it pretty deep and hard!

Be in touch..

Rosha said...

saadi mubarakh ho!
Party chain dinu parcha hai.Hangama garum la party ma!!

Rosha said...

saadika laddu,khaye bhi pachtayein,nakhaye bhi pachtayein!
whatever,All the best for new marital life Deepak g!
Wheres the party??!!

ELF said...

Congratulations Deepak-ji! and Good Luck for your marital life! :)

That day and thenafter should be every MAN's dream!

Raj Shrestha said...

happy married life deepak dai,
And where is the treat??????

Deepak Adhikari said...

Thank you all for your wishes. One unsolicited advice to you guys if marriage is in ur cards: go for it, it's the best gift life has to offer to u. Malai ta alik dhilo po biha gariyechha jasto lagya chha. Yes, I'll be posting the wedding pics as soon as possible.

zade said...

Wow suggestion Khatra lagyo! tarai ek hatle tali bajdaina hai ha ha ha..je hos somedays back a older friend of fine was lecturing me on relationships saying the same thing.." tarai dilai bhayeni garihalnu bho ni, aba po Life Suru huncha...hola :) Wish you the best Marriage has to offer and yes "WAITING FOR THE MARRIAGE PICS" like everyone else Very very eagerly am sure :)

TYAMKE VIEW said...

Congratulations Deepak ji,

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